Limiting your group’s age range – good or bad move?

A few weeks ago I led a time of training for a group of adult teachers and class leaders. I made a comment about how much more effective a Sunday School is if it’s organized by age or life-stage grouping where the participants have no more than a decade of difference in their ages. Narrower than 10 years is even better if possible, but there was one lady in the group who seemed to disagree with the idea of assigning an age grouping to a class. “Why not just let ‘whosoever wills’ come to any group?” was her question.

I came across the following quote from Steve Parr of the Georgia Baptist Convention. Here is what Steve, a recognized expert in Sunday School and groups ministry, says about this issue of narrowly defining the class by an age range in his book Sunday School that Really Works:

“You will find it difficult to experience sustained growth if you organize based on those who are attending…The adult Sunday School functions best at reaching and assimilating new people when organized by life stage or more narrow age groupings. Do not be afraid of assigning an age grouping to each adult class. Remember that a class name does not communicate who the class is intended for. Include age targets with class names or name classes by life stage such as Parents of Preschoolers, College, and New Career…Your members may think that it makes sense for everyone to go where they are comfortable. The reality is that a commitment to reach the lost and to connect them to the congregation requires that we organize in a way that assists in reaching and assimilating them” (Sunday School That Really Works, p.106)

That’s almost exactly what I told my sister in Christ at the training event. I could tell that she, and possibly others, struggled to grasp this. But when we think like “missionaries” who are trying to reach the unreached, narrowly defined groups help both us and the unreached person know exactly which group contains people most like them.

Do the following:

  • Examine your church’s group options.
  • Identify groups that have a “multi-generation” approach.
  • Look for groups that have an age range for the members greater than 10 years.
  • Talk with your church staff leader about more narrowly defining your groups and adding new groups where you find “gaps” (if you have no group for single moms, perhaps you should consider starting a group for those people).


  1. Gosh I so wish we could sit down and have some good discussions. I am truly on the dense on this one. Good things and fine questions. Luv u and miss your guidance. Ruby

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  2. I agree with Dr. Parr and you that this is the right move. Can you elaborate on why it works? I’ve had people argue this point with me, and I gave them some thoughts and showed them some data, but I’d love to hear your argument as to why.

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